Trick D

How to get women by Trick D

When I was in Junior High is when my hormones started kicking in, I was getting all the ladies numbers, flirting with all the ladies, and doing everything I can to get with the ladies. Then I realized something. They just weren’t in to me. I spent all of my junior high days being very popular, but with no women. When I was in ninth grade I found out that women didn’t like guys that were smaller than them. So I started lifting. Bulked 20 pounds that year, had a nice 6pac, and this is what I have learned since then.

How did I learn to get women

When I started High School, I was 15 years old. The summer before high school, I went to a carnival located in a city just outside of mine with the late, Jeremy (age 19), my role model and now deceased best friend. He had all the looks, he was 6’6 220, and had the perfect smile (at least the women said that), well he told me that we were going to go pick up some girls, well I had no experience and no luck, but he assured me that he would pull us through. All the sudden I see him go up to 6 girls he didn’t know. It was just him and I and I thought it was suicide, and before I knew it, he had all 6 of them giggling and giving him their numbers. I couldn’t believe it.

After studying what he did, I decided to put it to the test. The week before high school started I went to a festival located in Charleston, West Virginia. This is about 20 miles from my house. I went there with some friends, and we decided to go “mack” on girls and act like Jeremy did to see if we could get some numbers. So by the end of the night I ended up getting 9 girls numbers. This was the first time I had ever gotten a number from a girl that I didn’t already know from school or something. I started to get some self-esteem.
This is the formula that I learned from the late great Jeremy (RIP) after observing his actions.

The 4 C’s:

1. Be a little Cocky : When I say this, please don’t take it to the extreme. You must give yourself an image that shows the opposite sex that you are better than the others they could get with, but don’t just tell them that you are better. Act a little more cockier than you are normally are.

2. Be very Confident : There is a difference between cockiness and confidence. It is great to be confident around the opposite sex so that they know they have a person that is sure of himself.

3. Be Charming : It is always great to be charming. If you ask a girl, they are always looking for prince charming to sweep them off their feet. I believe you should be charming as soon as you meet the person you want to get with. I normally put cocky and charming together when giving them a compliment to really mess with them. I like using: “Do you know why I look so good right now?” (She should have resentment on her face) “Because I am beside you.” You will be shocked how well that works; they will say it is the sweetest thing they have ever heard.

4. And a Comedian! Now don’t take this to the extreme . Women love to laugh. But don’t be overly funny, and don’t be rude. Watch out for religious, racial, and other sensitive jokes. You don’t know much about her yet, and if you want to find out a lot more

When you put the 3 C’s together, you will make women feel comfortable with you and also it give them a reason to stop looking at other guys. Because women love confident guys that have a little swagger and are very charming.

Side notes:

a. Always smile, and be happy, even if you are not happy, pretend to be. Women want a man that is happy around them, so please act like your happy, and smile often.

b. Be a gentleman. Never be anything but one.

c. Don't be bashful, as for her number, and initiate conversation.

Dress for success:

Depending on the type of person you want to attract, the key is the way you dress. I do stress that if you are looking for a punk rocker, or a businesswoman, you need to dress accordingly.

Rule #1. Dress for success. Wear dress casual in places that will attract the type of people you are looking for. If you are going to school, wear a nice pair of American eagle jeans and a button up shirt. This is casual but also has a bit of dress to it since it is a button up shirt. Clothing like this gives confidence to your body.

Rule #2. Make sure they match! Obey the rules; don’t mix clothes that don’t match, if you have a question, ask your friend, roommate, or mom. You will be surprised how much help you can get from your very own mother. They give excellent advice. (Unless they are stuck in the 70’s.)

Rule #3. Wear clothes that fit. This also means to wear clothes that show up things that are nice about you. If you have big arms, wear a shirt that clings to them, but not one that rips around it. Wear clothes that go just past your waist and jeans that fit snuggly on your waist, a belt is always liked in today’s fashion.

Rule #4. The old sneakers have to go, although they may be comfortable, save them for a basketball game. Get yourself a nice pair of casual shoes or dress boots. I personally like low tops and boots/dress shoes made by Lugz and American eagle.

Rule #5. Accessories are important. Go out and get a nice watch. I would suggest something fashionable like a Fossil or Citizen. Also belts are very popular. I am a big fan of belt buckles. A nice belt buckle will draw you a lot of attention. I get ladies all the time commenting me on some of my belt buckles. It is an easy way of getting attention!

Pick up lines do not work!

One mistake many make is relying on pickup lines. I remember back in junior high we would use them and get smacked silly by the girls. It isn’t even worth trying a pickup line. Even if you are joking around with them, it could easily offend them.

The best pick up line you could ever use is introducing yourself. Ask them how they are and simply tell them your name. Start with small talk and if they seem they are interested keep up the conversation. That is the only pickup line that works.

Things that don’t attract women:

Girls avoid guys that instantly give them the sense of difference. Magnets attract instantly. I mean differences can workout over the long haul, but if you are trying to meet a girl now, go for a girl that have similar interests with you. Women hate guys with bad hygiene (take a shower and brush your teeth!), unruly hair (get a hair cut!), and insensitive guys. If you take the above measures, you shouldn’t have any trouble getting to at least talk to women.

Guys with no hope don’t fear!

Colonel Sanders went to over 1000 companies in order to get a company to invest in his chicken recipe. On number 1060 or so, he finally got a taker. Now KFC is one of the most famous restaurants in the entire world. The key is not to give up. Constantly try to meet people with similar interests and try to better yourself. You can do this by improving your knowledge or improving your body. Reading and weight lifting are two things I do to improve my image. The more I know, the more I can talk to someone about. The better I look, the more of a chance someone would approach me.

Lower your standards:

I have always had high standards, but many people expect Aphrodite to come walking by screaming their name. This isn’t going to happen. When you have little to no luck getting girls, go for girls with similar interests. I promise you that looks are not the only thing that matters. Get a girl that you can have fun with. Once you get some dates, your confidence will increase and you will start getting better and better girls!

So I got a girl, where to take her?

Well first, you need to mentally prepare for a date. You need to settle your nerves and be confident that you will have a good time. Most people say that the movies is the best place to take a woman for the first date, I argue that if you don’t know a person that well, a girl may feel uncomfortable on the first date alone in the dark. I suggest going putt-putting, bowling, or to a club/bar. This way you can ask her if she wants to bring her friends (hopefully she will say no), and she can feel more comfortable. Also I feel that you need to have fun on the first date. Make her laugh, so that she will want to go on another one. Bring a rose. Going to the movies doesn’t give the two of you enough time to get to know each other.

Is it all about money and looks?

No, you will be surprised how much common interests can take you. Some girls/guys have a good head on their shoulder, and they are looking for someone that will show them a good time. If you are that person, I promise that it won’t matter how much money you have or how good looking you are. If a woman is obsessed with money/looks then she isn’t the one for you, because as soon as someone with more money comes, they will be gone.

A quick story:

I went to a party; not looking for love at all, to be honest I was quite intoxicated, but still had a good head on my shoulders. I started off the night, with a bet with my good friend on seeing who could get the most phone numbers. While I was getting all these numbers (I ended up losing the bet) I met this beautiful girl named Amanda. I had a long conversation with her. I applied my creed with the 4 C’s and made her laugh. I also found that we had similar opinions and morals. By the end of the night, she looked at me and said, “You know what Dustin, You are different.” From the night, we have been together ever since. She is a beautiful beacon but the best thing about her is her personality and our shared interests. If I can find love when I wasn’t even trying to find it, I am sure that everyone will find someone to be happy with the rest of their lives.


Good luck guys.


***** Since this was written, Dustin and Amanda has broken up

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I have to agree, which acutally suprises me. No offense, but from the title of the thread I was thinking too things: One, this is going to be really bad, really degrading to women, offensive, immoral, ect, ect and the other thing I was wondering, who the hell accepted this to be published as an article on a bodybuilding site, and why? But I wished to reserve judgement and give it a try first. I didn't read the whole thing to be honest (thats because this stuff isn't really news for me, and I know how to behave with women, ect. i'm not some disillusion guy looking for a slut) but I read about three quaters of it, and from what I saw it is very good and respectful of women, thanks for writing it from a good and moral standpoint. Also, I did ctrl + f and typed sex, and it didn't find any results. Thanks for posting about what is truly important. Granted sex [i]is[/b] important, it certainly isn't something you should even have on your mind when meeting someone for the first time.

Dan

All that to get women?

I never found it that hard...

Trick D

Heh, well i wrote it for bodybuilding.com and finished 2nd place in the topic of the week, I took it seriously and tried to do as much as possible to make it realistic instead of looking up stuff online. Everything i typed and came up with myself.


It isn't that hard to get a girlfriend or course, but I just wanted to give some tips, and see what maybe some guys are missing out on.


And no, I have found myself a great woman, very moral, and with similar values.


What type of woman do you know that Can bench 115, deadlift almost 200, beat me in fishing (caught 11 fish last night, I caught 9), and was asked by a modeling booth at the arnold classic to come to their studio to get photoed.


I think I did well.

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Trick D

oh, might as well add that she is going to be a teacher, has a 3.5 gpa in college, and she loves bodybuilding too.

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Dan

I was not saying it was not a good read...

We can get you first here. ...

Trick D

Well that pissed me off, but trust me man, i don't have any problems getting women, and don't slam me for trying to help people out. I didn't have to post the article, I did so that little boys like you could get off your computer chair and get off with a girl.


Sorry if I am a nice guy

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Is all you do insult people's writing? Let's see you write your own article.


Good article, TRICK D. I remember that from bb.com, btw. Well written, and it seems like you chose the right woman for you.

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Workout-Boy, please re-read the forum rules... they state to treat others with respect, and the way you want to be treated...

Thank You

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Trick-D, nice article... and congrats on getting 2nd place with it...

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I agree good post however I try to keep it simple especially since women are so confusing anyways.

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Trick D

Bump, Just want to see if anyone agrees with the principles of this article.

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Master Of Puppets

The only thing I have a problem with is the clothes issue. Although it's always good to look nice, you need to be comfortable with whatever you're wearing. Great article otherwise. I'll put it to the test!

MOP

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ill read when i get back from the gym.

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mrsc

Actually -- EXCELLENT ARTICLE

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YOU did do well and I respect how much time and effort you put into it.

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