Yeah, so I got played by a girl again.

**skelooth** · 09-11-2005, 12:28 AM

Just figured I'd do my rambling on this board. I have a few places I target my ramblings

(my blog on myspace is BAD haha).

Anyway.... Yeah, I've lost almost all faith in the opposite sex. I'm sure they can't all be evil... but you know.... I seem to meet all of the evil ones??? Every time I think I found some i can click with, it turns out to be just a couple weeks of sex then they don't want anything to do with me or I don't want anything to do with them.... so...

The story!

I meet this girl on myspace, she had lost 130lbs and was training to get into the navy, so we instantly had something in common which is difficult for me to find (I have fitness OCD despite my body not looking like it). So we hit it off, ended up sleeping with each other the second time we hung out... she started spending the night a lot, etc... but then she got shipped off to boot camp 2 weeks later.

While in boot camp, she writes me a bunch of letters "I am being seperated from the navy so i'm coming home, i miss you so much, i want us to be together, etc etc). She called me from seps and was soooo excited to hear from me, etc.

So she comes back... 10lbs fatter and in dire need of a hair cut.

You could see the fat she put on in her face... and she kept saying how she's just going to 'eat' from now on..... on top of that, i go to pick her up, she is wearing some other dude's dog tags, and she's like "oh, btw i'm moving to maryland".... WTF??? So RANDOM! And in just TWO DAYS!

So whatever, we hang out, she's like, oh i can't hang out long. we ended up screwing.... i don't know who started it. I mean, all find and good.... but then after she had to go home. So i drop her off and she's like "I'll call you tomorrow" we were going to make plans to see eachother before she left....

the next day, no phone call.

So this morning i call her, and I'm like, "yeah, what's up" she's all like blah blah sorry i went out last night blah blah. And i'm like, and you weren't going to even call me before I left? She was like "no i wouldn't do that"... then... she PRETENDS she has another call!!!!!!!! and she's like will you be there? I'll call you back.

No call back, she's in maryland now. wtf man.

In all seriousness, I think I need to stop putting out so easy, because this is not the first time where I think i have been used for an easy screw..... but i've got issues with trying to meet new people, so when I find someone who likes me I'm always so quick to give it up. I thought it was the girls who were supposed to feel like this? EH???

I hope you found my story entertaining... ahhhh, just another few pages to add to my autobiography one day.

**Sholiz** · 09-11-2005, 01:02 AM

Hey, just think ... you got some sexin' out of it LOL.

In seriousness, ehh ... I'd just let the shit that's happened, be done with and find someone else for some fun.

**Peaked_18** · 09-11-2005, 01:05 AM

Fact or fiction?

After the first cyber, I just craved an e-cigarette. Then her e-moans were so good I had to e-hit it again (cyber). As I touch her e-boobies I think to myself...do I have to IM her tomorrow? I think I will wait this one out and let her IM me first. This cyber with change us for life...

I'm bored, hope this ok to post.

**skelooth** · 09-11-2005, 01:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sholiz

Hey, just think ... you got some sexin' out of it LOL.

In seriousness, ehh ... I'd just let the shit that's happened, be done with and find someone else for some fun.

yeah, I'm having my 15 minutes of hardship. I just started talking to another (albeit prettier girl) that I can start calling. So.... this time it really is all her loss. It's just frustrating because this seems to always happen to me lately. It's been a very long time since I've been able to find anything 'real' with a girl.

And... I always wonder what is going through these girl's heads??

**jiza101** · 09-11-2005, 01:47 AM

"Treat em mean, keep em keen" Hey it may not seem nice, but i have seen some BAD sh!t happen to mates and so on, some women just don't realise how much they can effect some guys minds

I would move on dude, and be the man, try not to act needy and so on, show her that your boss, and you will protect her and look after her, she just has to respect you. Goodluck :fingersxd

**ellipticer** · 09-11-2005, 02:10 AM

Its just sex. When you find the right one, it won't be... for now, just screw em and don't worry about it if they go to Maryland after. It is a small state, but it can hold all of your rejects no problem.

dnyc99 · 09-11-2005, 02:16 AM

Sorry about your relationship probs.

But....Easy come, Easy Go. :zoom:

~D~

PS: Wishing you much success in finding the right girl.

Pj-Macx · 09-11-2005, 08:26 AM

Hey Skel... you are young.. and I am sorry that these happen to really good people.. but sometimes they do.. and you just have to move on.. and try again.. one of these times and you will know when that is.. it wont be just a few weeks of sex.. it will be something special.. for you and her both.. you will be able to tell by the look in her eyes.. and the sound of her voice.. when you talk to her.. or see her.. there will be the excitement not for just a little while... but it will last.. because she will be the one that you were meant to Love.. just keep your chin up.. it will happen for you.. sometimes you have to stop looking so hard..

Apootheosis · 09-11-2005, 01:40 PM

at least you got laid off myspace, thats a pretty big accomplishment

Aftershock · 09-11-2005, 03:25 PM

Exactly... you find a girl you really enjoy being with... she makes it seem like she really likes you, all her attention's on you, etc. Then all of a sudden her attitude completely changes like it's no big deal and she's not concerned with you at all... usually happens right around the point you actually think something big's gonna happen.

Stupid women

vanwilder · 09-11-2005, 03:35 PM

i think you got to attached for such a little amount of time, she noticed, the fun was gone, your dumped. thats all i can get out of her. sounds like a hoe though, so your better off. just remember that when a girl leaves you its her problem not yours. she is the one missing out. now go piitb

**skelooth** · 09-12-2005, 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by vanwilder

i think you got to attached for such a little amount of time, she noticed, the fun was gone, your dumped. thats all i can get out of her. sounds like a hoe though, so your better off. just remember that when a girl leaves you its her problem not yours. she is the one missing out. now go piitb

I never got attatched. Believe me, I am not shedding a tear over here. I'm just SHOCKED, this girl literally wrote me letters from bootcamp damn near professing her love, and how much she wanted to be with me, and blah blah. I could care less if I see her again, I'm just shocked at how fake someone can be.

SouthCaliDiva · 09-13-2005, 12:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by skelooth

Just figured I'd do my rambling on this board. I have a few places I target my ramblings

(my blog on myspace is BAD haha).

Anyway.... Yeah, I've lost almost all faith in the opposite sex. I'm sure they can't all be evil... but you know.... I seem to meet all of the evil ones??? Every time I think I found some i can click with, it turns out to be just a couple weeks of sex then they don't want anything to do with me or I don't want anything to do with them.... so...

The story!

{SNIP-painful tale of rude girl's treatment of you}

I hope you found my story entertaining... ahhhh, just another few pages to add to my autobiography one day.

All I can say is "WELCOME TO OUR WORLD!" The unfortunate part is that folks don't grow out of it. I've been dealing with two people, 38 and 39 years old, who do the same crap. "Yeah, baby, I'll call you." Days go by, weeks go by, months go by. Phone finally rings. And they have the audacity to ask why I have been avoiding them. And then top it off by being annoyed that I'm not available. What the hell! This isn't Dial-A-Date!

SHEESH!!!!

Your attitude is exactly right. Brush your shoulders off and go for the next one.

Master Of Puppets · 09-13-2005, 10:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SouthCaliDiva

Your attitude is exactly right. Brush your shoulders off and go for the next one.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jay-Z: Dirt Off Your Shoulder

You're now tuned into the muh'****in greatest
Turn the music up in the headphones
Tim, you can go and brush your shoulder off nigga
I got you, yeah

[Chorus: Jay-Z]
If you feelin like a pimp nigga, go and brush your shoulders off
Ladies is pimps too, go and brush your shoulders off
****** is crazy baby, don't forget that boy told you
Get, that, dirt off your shoulder

[Verse One]
I probably owe it to y'all, proud to be locked by the force
Tryin to hustle some things, that go with the Porsche
Feelin no remorse, feelin like my hand was forced
Middle finger to the law, nigga grip'n my balls
All the ladies they love me, from the bleachers they screamin
All the ballers is bouncin they like the way I be leanin
All the rappers be hatin, off the track that I'm makin
But all the hustlers they love it just to see one of us make it
Came from the bottom the bottom, to the top of the pots
Nigga London, Japan and I'm straight off the block
Like a running back, get it man, I'm straight off the block
I can run it back nigga cause I'm straight with the Roc

[Chorus]

[Chorus Two]
You gotta get, that, dirt off your shoulder
You gotta get, that, dirt off your shoulder
You gotta get, that, dirt off your shoulder
You gotta get, that, dirt off your shoulder

[Verse Two]
Your homey Hov' in position, in the kitchen with soda
I just whipped up a watch, tryin to get me a Rover
Tryin to stretch out the coca, like a wrestler, yessir
Keep the Heckler close, you know them smokers'll test ya
But like, fifty-two cards when I'm, I'm through dealin
Now fifty-two bars come out, now you feel 'em
Now, fifty-two cars roll out, remove ceiling
In case fifty-two broads come out, now you chillin
with a boss bitch of course S.C. on the sleeve
At the 40/40 club, ESPN on the screen
I paid a grip for the jeans, plus the slippers is clean
No chrome on the wheels, I'm a grown-up for real

[Chorus + Chorus Two]

[Verse Three]
Your boy back in the building, Brooklyn we back on the map
Me and my beautiful beeeeeeeitch in the back of that 'Bach
I'm the realest that run it, I just happen to rap
I ain't gotta clap at 'em, ****** scared of that black
I drop that +Black, Album+ then I back, out it
As the best rapper alive nigga ask about me
From Bricks to Billboards, from grams to Grammys
The O's to opposite, Orphan Annie
You gotta pardon Jay, for sellin out the Garden in a day
I'm like a young Marvin in his hey'
I'm a hustler homey, you a customer crony
Got some, dirt on my shoulder, could you brush it off for me?

[Chorus + Chorus Two]

You're now tuned into the muh'****in greatest

Best rapper alive, best rapper alive

Haha. Brush it off, man.

OmgSexy · 09-14-2005, 04:13 PM

When you meet girls and go on dates, you should NEVER think of it as meeting a potential long term Girlfriend/lover/etc.
Just live each day as if it is your last...enjoy every moment in the present.
Don't worry about what will happen with this new girl or try to force things...just let it all play out naturally.
Becoming too attached too quickly is nothing but trouble.
Girls (especially young ones) sometimes have no idea what they want from men/relationships/sex/etc...so when they don't stick around don't be surprised.

When you have preset expectations you are setting yourself up to be hurt.
I never let myself get emotionally attached to a guy when I was dating until we were together for more than a year. I have only had sex with two guys, and one of them married me. The other I dated for 3 years and we only broke up cuz I moved to another country.

Don't get me wrong, I have had tons of boyfriends, but I only gave my heart to two and its never been broken.
Dating is like auditioning for a play, you are just finding out what qualities you want in a partner.

anyway enough of this rambling...just thought I would put my two cents in since you guys sound discouraged.

09-11-2005, 12:28 AM	#1
skelooth eh heh heh Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Behind you Posts: 7,200 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 158	Yeah, so I got played by a girl again. Just figured I'd do my rambling on this board. I have a few places I target my ramblings (my blog on myspace is BAD haha). Anyway.... Yeah, I've lost almost all faith in the opposite sex. I'm sure they can't all be evil... but you know.... I seem to meet all of the evil ones??? Every time I think I found some i can click with, it turns out to be just a couple weeks of sex then they don't want anything to do with me or I don't want anything to do with them.... so... The story! I meet this girl on myspace, she had lost 130lbs and was training to get into the navy, so we instantly had something in common which is difficult for me to find (I have fitness OCD despite my body not looking like it). So we hit it off, ended up sleeping with each other the second time we hung out... she started spending the night a lot, etc... but then she got shipped off to boot camp 2 weeks later. While in boot camp, she writes me a bunch of letters "I am being seperated from the navy so i'm coming home, i miss you so much, i want us to be together, etc etc). She called me from seps and was soooo excited to hear from me, etc. So she comes back... 10lbs fatter and in dire need of a hair cut. You could see the fat she put on in her face... and she kept saying how she's just going to 'eat' from now on..... on top of that, i go to pick her up, she is wearing some other dude's dog tags, and she's like "oh, btw i'm moving to maryland".... WTF??? So RANDOM! And in just TWO DAYS! So whatever, we hang out, she's like, oh i can't hang out long. we ended up screwing.... i don't know who started it. I mean, all find and good.... but then after she had to go home. So i drop her off and she's like "I'll call you tomorrow" we were going to make plans to see eachother before she left.... the next day, no phone call. So this morning i call her, and I'm like, "yeah, what's up" she's all like blah blah sorry i went out last night blah blah. And i'm like, and you weren't going to even call me before I left? She was like "no i wouldn't do that"... then... she PRETENDS she has another call!!!!!!!! and she's like will you be there? I'll call you back. No call back, she's in maryland now. wtf man. In all seriousness, I think I need to stop putting out so easy, because this is not the first time where I think i have been used for an easy screw..... but i've got issues with trying to meet new people, so when I find someone who likes me I'm always so quick to give it up. I thought it was the girls who were supposed to feel like this? EH??? I hope you found my story entertaining... ahhhh, just another few pages to add to my autobiography one day. __________________ http://loseover100lbs.com/misc-f7.html

09-11-2005, 01:02 AM	#2
Sholiz Soldier In Progress Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 3,431 Recipes: 3 Rep Power: 230	Hey, just think ... you got some sexin' out of it LOL. In seriousness, ehh ... I'd just let the shit that's happened, be done with and find someone else for some fun. __________________ You hear me before you see me, I got King Kong in the trunk

09-11-2005, 01:47 AM	#5
jiza101 Rocco Siffredi Join Date: May 2005 Location: On Set Posts: 621 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 10	"Treat em mean, keep em keen" Hey it may not seem nice, but i have seen some BAD sh!t happen to mates and so on, some women just don't realise how much they can effect some guys minds I would move on dude, and be the man, try not to act needy and so on, show her that your boss, and you will protect her and look after her, she just has to respect you. Goodluck :fingersxd __________________

09-11-2005, 02:10 AM	#6
ellipticer IronMass Sponsor Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 91 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 3	Its just sex. When you find the right one, it won't be... for now, just screw em and don't worry about it if they go to Maryland after. It is a small state, but it can hold all of your rejects no problem. __________________ =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=- Win $50 in FREE SUPPLEMENTS just by writing a review: Bodybuilding Supplement Reviews =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-

09-11-2005, 02:16 AM	#7
dnyc99 IMPC Contestant Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 4,023 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 182	Sorry about your relationship probs. But....Easy come, Easy Go. :zoom: ~D~ PS: Wishing you much success in finding the right girl. __________________

09-11-2005, 01:05 AM	#3
Peaked_18 a la commode Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 4,247 Recipes: 2 Rep Power: 96	Fact or fiction? After the first cyber, I just craved an e-cigarette. Then her e-moans were so good I had to e-hit it again (cyber). As I touch her e-boobies I think to myself...do I have to IM her tomorrow? I think I will wait this one out and let her IM me first. This cyber with change us for life... I'm bored, hope this ok to post.

09-11-2005, 08:26 AM	#8
Pj-Macx Pro Stature Join Date: May 2005 Location: 632 HP SS Posts: 3,336 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 68	Hey Skel... you are young.. and I am sorry that these happen to really good people.. but sometimes they do.. and you just have to move on.. and try again.. one of these times and you will know when that is.. it wont be just a few weeks of sex.. it will be something special.. for you and her both.. you will be able to tell by the look in her eyes.. and the sound of her voice.. when you talk to her.. or see her.. there will be the excitement not for just a little while... but it will last.. because she will be the one that you were meant to Love.. just keep your chin up.. it will happen for you.. sometimes you have to stop looking so hard.. __________________ Co-Owner @ BodyBuildingXtreme 2002 Navy Blue Metallic Camaro SS "The Blue Ghost" # 10354 -=LME LSX 454ci built for N20=-

09-11-2005, 01:40 PM	#9
Apootheosis Pro Stature Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 625 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 10	at least you got laid off myspace, thats a pretty big accomplishment __________________ lawlz

09-11-2005, 03:25 PM	#10
Aftershock Steel Pimp Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 285 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 6	Exactly... you find a girl you really enjoy being with... she makes it seem like she really likes you, all her attention's on you, etc. Then all of a sudden her attitude completely changes like it's no big deal and she's not concerned with you at all... usually happens right around the point you actually think something big's gonna happen. Stupid women __________________ sholiz: im drunk and i want some fruit loops Aftershock: no i know you need to maintain a certain level of professionalism on ironmass Aftershock: how easily i can destroy that... sholiz: just in appearance `````````\\|\|\|/ `````````(o o) ,--ooO-----(_)-------------, \|````````` Aftershock ````\| \|```````````is```````````\| \|``````````sexy````````` \| '--------------Ooo----------' ````````\|__\|__\| `````````\|\|\| \|\| ````````ooO Ooo

09-11-2005, 03:35 PM	#11
vanwilder IMPC Contestant Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: calgary Posts: 722 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 14	i think you got to attached for such a little amount of time, she noticed, the fun was gone, your dumped. thats all i can get out of her. sounds like a hoe though, so your better off. just remember that when a girl leaves you its her problem not yours. she is the one missing out. now go piitb __________________ me > yourmom

09-14-2005, 04:13 PM	#15
OmgSexy Pro Stature Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Miami, FL Posts: 120 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 5	When you meet girls and go on dates, you should NEVER think of it as meeting a potential long term Girlfriend/lover/etc. Just live each day as if it is your last...enjoy every moment in the present. Don't worry about what will happen with this new girl or try to force things...just let it all play out naturally. Becoming too attached too quickly is nothing but trouble. Girls (especially young ones) sometimes have no idea what they want from men/relationships/sex/etc...so when they don't stick around don't be surprised. When you have preset expectations you are setting yourself up to be hurt. I never let myself get emotionally attached to a guy when I was dating until we were together for more than a year. I have only had sex with two guys, and one of them married me. The other I dated for 3 years and we only broke up cuz I moved to another country. Don't get me wrong, I have had tons of boyfriends, but I only gave my heart to two and its never been broken. Dating is like auditioning for a play, you are just finding out what qualities you want in a partner. anyway enough of this rambling...just thought I would put my two cents in since you guys sound discouraged.

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