strongman72

OK so heres the deal.Theres this girl at school who is always talking to me and always askin me these personal questions.well she says she likes me but she has a boyfriend.she told me that if she didnt have a boyfriend she would totally go for me.I know she likes me.the other day she saw my arms and she was all like mg ur arms are huge are they all muscle?...i let her feel them and she wuz all like: your muscles are huge!...shes confusing sometimes.well her boy friend is a senior and will be leaving.shes a sophmore (so am i).what do i do?she even had a dream about me yesterday.i really like this girl and i do want to be with her!please help!

DarkFalcon

You guys are 16, she's not married and you'll both go through a ton of bf/gf's in the next 10 years. Ask her out somewhere fun where you guys can get the feel of a date and let her dictate what happens. If you hook up great, she'll most likely drop the guy she's with for you. If you don't hook up make sure you have a good time and when she does drop the guy you'll be the first call.

Pj-Macx

Sorry to totally go against what DF said.. but if she has a boyfriend.. it would be best to wait until she is free from him before you ask her out... or tell her you want to date her.. but you cant until she is free....if she is really interested... she will more than likely break it off with the other guy.. I mean really do you want to date a girl who will date two guys at the same time.. it is just better in the long run.. to wait until she is free of the other guy... just my opinion..

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DarkFalcon

That is so unusual.

jiza101

Hmm, 2 options.
1: She is playing with you, remember some women LOVE to be known that people want them, its human nature, if she isn't giving out or giving excuses, chances are shes playing games.
2: She really wants you, what i would do is say this, break it of with your boyfriend and go out with her and enjoy yourself, if she isn't willing to break it of, you should go searching for other ladies, and if she does finally break it of, go with her if she makes the first move.
Make sure you don't become attached to her.

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antihero

I ACTUALLY AGREE WITH DF......
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that being said, dont pull what i did. my and a chick (we'll call her Y) were both into each other and getting to know eachother better before we made anything official. so then at a football game, Y's best friend (we'll call her K) was balling her eyes out b/c her bf just threatened her. Y told me to go help out. so i did. i took care of the threatening bf, but unfortunatly i made the decision to spend some time with K to be there for support.

TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT....THE FINAL RESULT IS
-K and i are together
-Y and K hate each other
-Y still loves me and is trying to cause all problems she can, by hitting on me everytime K is around. (me and Y are just friends, but shes trying to make me dump K to go out with her)

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HAYWOOD JABLOME

I've gone through that so that's the first thing that came to my mind

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Gappa238

If you would of added another girl named "k" into the story then you could of said that you had YKK on your zipper

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Gappa238

:yeah:
Women work in wierd ways, it's like they love to start drama... I personally don't get it

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datruodb

Dude..Her man will go off to college and will forget bout her...She already knows that, so she is looking for a replacement (you). Do not take her too serious though..You show tons of interest then she will drop u fast!! Sux but it's the truth...It's all a game dude..If you take n e 1's advice please take mine! show interest make some time for her but not too much! Plus ur really young so just have fun with her. Hit me up if u got n e questions

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strongman72

The other day she told me to meet her somewhere cuz she wanted to and i quote "talk to me talk to me".so i did and she asked me "if i didnt have a boyfriend what would i ask her"she then told me she liked me and then said she would get with me if she didnt have a boyfriend. oh and This morning she called me over to flex for her friend and let her friend feel my muscle.It's weird but oh well.

strongman72

Also something happened today .
Her boyfriend had lip gloss on his lips that wasn’t hers! When she asked him about it he said that it was hers but it wasn’t. Her lip gloss had glitter in it and there was no glitter on his lips. So in other words he’s lying to her or he’s gay, which most likely he’s just lying.

antihero

i used the letters Y & K, becuase those are the initials to their first names.

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powerman2000

Since we are talking about 16 year olds and not adults in adult relationships, I too would agree with the esteemed Mr. DF.

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DarkFalcon

Exactly, youngin's try thinking in terms of adult relationships but they don't realize that they lack the maturity even if they think they do. Your 15-16 go out meet lot's of people and have a blast don't complicate things and over think them you'll have lot's of time for that when your 25. I'm not saying go out and screw everything in site but keep your options open to anything.

Pj-Macx

Not to keep disagreeing with DF here.. but it just breeds disrespect for later relationships... I understand what you are saying.. but if they are going to do it that way.. they dont need to consider themselves boyfriend and girlfriend.. just friends.. that go out once in a while and have fun... that way there is NO attachment.. and as much as you guys think that at 16.. kids dont get attached... they do... just because they are 16.. doesnt mean they need to disrespect themselves.. or anyone else..

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DarkFalcon

It's not disrespect if your open about it and let the people know your not settling down and will be dating others. And of course young people fall in love if you do you do. Go with it as long as it lasts then.