What do i do?(girl problem)help! - Page 2

**johnsbod** · 11-07-2005, 05:51 AM

My advice, it's not worth fighting over a girl EVER. If she is willing start a relationship while she is also in a relationship with another person, chances are she will also repeat this pattern in the future.

**bubba g** · 11-07-2005, 08:54 AM

You have two choices here.... PIITB, or DILIH.... lol

All kidding aside I think if she dumps her current boyfriend for you it is a matter of time before she looks to trade you in for some other dude.
In my opinion if you do go with her it won't be long before she is telling someone else how she would go with them if she didn't have a boyfriend...
If I was you I would move on.. If in the future you two hook up then fine, if not that's fine two.... There are plenty of single girls out there...

**schroeder** · 11-07-2005, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Jennifer Aniston

Yea...i'm single strongman!

thank you brad!

datruodb · 11-09-2005, 05:01 PM

I'd rather have sex with Jolie than Aniston!!!

LoveThyPain · 11-09-2005, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by strongman72

OK so heres the deal.Theres this girl at school who is always talking to me and always askin me these personal questions.well she says she likes me but she has a boyfriend.she told me that if she didnt have a boyfriend she would totally go for me.I know she likes me.the other day she saw my arms and she was all like mg ur arms are huge are they all muscle?...i let her feel them and she wuz all like: your muscles are huge!...shes confusing sometimes.well her boy friend is a senior and will be leaving.shes a sophmore (so am i).what do i do?she even had a dream about me yesterday.i really like this girl and i do want to be with her!please help!

This is a hit and run case. At ur age u shouldnt even think about getting serious. Girls ur age dont even know what they want, but sex is a good guess though! If ur planning on a relationship ur digging ur own grave.

LoveThyPain · 11-09-2005, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by strongman72

The other day she told me to meet her somewhere cuz she wanted to and i quote "talk to me talk to me".so i did and she asked me "if i didnt have a boyfriend what would i ask her"she then told me she liked me and then said she would get with me if she didnt have a boyfriend. oh and This morning she called me over to flex for her friend and let her friend feel my muscle.It's weird but oh well.

lmfao! So what u went over and said, "Do u have tickets to the gun show?" And then proceeded to do a front double bi?

strongman72 · 11-10-2005, 12:33 AM

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Originally Posted by LoveThyPain

lmfao! So what u went over and said, "Do u have tickets to the gun show?" And then proceeded to do a front double bi?

Na i just went over and flexed for her. I should have said something like that though.lol.

Pj-Macx · 11-10-2005, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by datruodb

I'd rather have sex with Jolie than Aniston!!!

Not me... Aniston is cuter... oh wait.. I probably should not have said that out loud... :o

strongman72 · 11-10-2005, 01:32 AM

I don't know its a hard decision between the two! :confused2

:bigthumbu

strongman72 · 11-15-2005, 03:20 AM

Well today she asked me if I would ever fight her boyfriend.I told her I wouldn't do it without reason. She then said if her boyfriend ever hit me she would break up with him.Does this mean something?

**johnsbod** · 11-15-2005, 03:26 AM

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Originally Posted by strongman72

Well today she asked me if I would ever fight her boyfriend.I told her I wouldn't do it without reason. She then said if her boyfriend ever hit me she would break up with him.Does this mean something?

It means that this girl has too much baggage and that you should either wait until she dumps him or keep looking.

strongman72 · 11-15-2005, 03:30 AM

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Originally Posted by johnsbod

It means that this girl has too much baggage and that you should either wait until she dumps him or keep looking.

Unfortunately your probably right.But ima keep my eyes open! :fingersxd :winkthumb

Anyone else have a different opinion?

big_tris34 · 11-15-2005, 03:35 AM

Never leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love.But hell if you know for a fact they aint in love take that kuchy.You know she wants something from you that he dont have so just give it to her shell drop him as fast as MJ turned white.Pretty gay I know but just tell her to drop him or you can beat that ass if you want thats my favorite. :hooligan: :hooligan: :hooligan: :nosthumbs :nosthumbs

strongman72 · 11-18-2005, 04:47 AM

Good news!I'm just gonna let go!! It's time to move on.I really don't feel like waiting around for the next 6 months.

Pj-Macx · 11-18-2005, 05:17 AM

Good for you...

Good Luck with your search...

pammiejoe6 · 11-18-2005, 02:22 PM

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Originally Posted by strongman72

Unfortunately your probably right.But ima keep my eyes open! :fingersxd :winkthumb

Anyone else have a different opinion?

I do...

heres my opinion...

be honest with her....pull her aside and tell her everything youve been going through the last few weeks....tell her youve wanted to make a move, and that all her actions tell you she wants you to make a move, but that you respect her too much to try to fool around with someone who is already in a "thing"....Tell her you'd LOVE to date her and see if you two would get along...and see what she says? Youre young, yes, but this doesnt mean that you have to start out lying or trying to manipulate the situation yanno? IMO honesty is the best policy....if she's just jerking you around cuz she THINKS SHE MIGHT be attracted to you, then the odds are that she really doesnt know what she wants and is just enjoying the little game ya'll have going on while still having a boyfriend she is secure with (until next year...lol)...right now she has the best of both worlds yanno? I think if you make it all reality to her she might take it a little more seriously...

and in the meantime dude...look around you! Look at all those OTHER hot chicks that you could get to know! Life is too short to dwell on something you dont even know will work yanno? Live life! If its really meant to be, it WILL BE...otherwise its just a learning experience for you both and you need to move on with things and stop trippin...

good luck to you no matter what you decide to do! Youre a good kid, with great muscles....heh...just think of all those other girls out there in the world who LOVE BIG MUSCLES! whohooooooo! Just keep your head on straight, pump that iron, do well in school, and THEN find that chick that really rocks your boat to learn about... :bigthumbu

~~2Ripped4U~~ · 11-18-2005, 02:49 PM

strongman:I've been in this similar situation.All you can do is ride it out,don't get in the middle of their relationship and break it up,because thats just ****ed up (My aunt just left my uncle due to him being an ass,and cheating on her anyways) If she wants you she will hook up with you once the other guy leaves.On the other side of the coin,you might have to come to realise some girls lead guys on,and don't really want a relationship.All I can say is just ride it out see what happens,and don't screw with their relationship.And like everyone else said there is more than one girl in the world bro,just my opnion on the situation

pammiejoe6 · 11-18-2005, 02:56 PM

BTW...Angelina Jolie over Jennifer Aniston most definitely!

(how weird that their initials are the exact opposite.....AJ.....JA.......hahahha)

11-07-2005, 05:51 AM	#31
johnsbod Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Vienna, Austria Posts: 2,733 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 60	My advice, it's not worth fighting over a girl EVER. If she is willing start a relationship while she is also in a relationship with another person, chances are she will also repeat this pattern in the future. __________________ Wenn Sie Deutsch sprechen können, posten Sie hier. Misc Perv #69

11-09-2005, 05:01 PM	#34
datruodb Pro Stature Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Tulsa, Ok Posts: 326 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 7	I'd rather have sex with Jolie than Aniston!!! __________________ Vanilla Gorilla

11-10-2005, 01:32 AM	#39
strongman72 Pro Stature Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Corpus Christi, Texas Posts: 205 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 10	I don't know its a hard decision between the two! :confused2 :bigthumbu __________________ Runnin in 30 degree weather,rain -guy says to me "What they hell are you runnin in this for,you're crazy!" I laugh and say, "Na just dedicated!":bass: 2006 POWERLIFTING REGIONAL QUALIFIER UPDATE Status-STILL WORKING TO GET TO THE TOP Age:17 Bench: 300 (315) Incline: 250 Squat: 445 (465) Power Clean: 225 (235) Deadlift: 500 Raw - Due to a torn quad injury it has gone down. () are goals that are to be done in 3 months.

11-15-2005, 03:20 AM	#40
strongman72 Pro Stature Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Corpus Christi, Texas Posts: 205 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 10	Well today she asked me if I would ever fight her boyfriend.I told her I wouldn't do it without reason. She then said if her boyfriend ever hit me she would break up with him.Does this mean something? __________________ Runnin in 30 degree weather,rain -guy says to me "What they hell are you runnin in this for,you're crazy!" I laugh and say, "Na just dedicated!":bass: 2006 POWERLIFTING REGIONAL QUALIFIER UPDATE Status-STILL WORKING TO GET TO THE TOP Age:17 Bench: 300 (315) Incline: 250 Squat: 445 (465) Power Clean: 225 (235) Deadlift: 500 Raw - Due to a torn quad injury it has gone down. () are goals that are to be done in 3 months.

11-18-2005, 04:47 AM	#44
strongman72 Pro Stature Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Corpus Christi, Texas Posts: 205 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 10	Good news!I'm just gonna let go!! It's time to move on.I really don't feel like waiting around for the next 6 months. __________________ Runnin in 30 degree weather,rain -guy says to me "What they hell are you runnin in this for,you're crazy!" I laugh and say, "Na just dedicated!":bass: 2006 POWERLIFTING REGIONAL QUALIFIER UPDATE Status-STILL WORKING TO GET TO THE TOP Age:17 Bench: 300 (315) Incline: 250 Squat: 445 (465) Power Clean: 225 (235) Deadlift: 500 Raw - Due to a torn quad injury it has gone down. () are goals that are to be done in 3 months.

11-07-2005, 08:54 AM	#32
bubba g Moderator Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 2,949 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 177	You have two choices here.... PIITB, or DILIH.... lol All kidding aside I think if she dumps her current boyfriend for you it is a matter of time before she looks to trade you in for some other dude. In my opinion if you do go with her it won't be long before she is telling someone else how she would go with them if she didn't have a boyfriend... If I was you I would move on.. If in the future you two hook up then fine, if not that's fine two.... There are plenty of single girls out there...

11-15-2005, 03:35 AM	#43
big_tris34 New Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 9 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 0	Never leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love.But hell if you know for a fact they aint in love take that kuchy.You know she wants something from you that he dont have so just give it to her shell drop him as fast as MJ turned white.Pretty gay I know but just tell her to drop him or you can beat that ass if you want thats my favorite. :hooligan: :hooligan: :hooligan: :nosthumbs :nosthumbs

11-18-2005, 05:17 AM	#45
Pj-Macx Pro Stature Join Date: May 2005 Location: 632 HP SS Posts: 3,337 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 68	Good for you... Good Luck with your search... __________________ Co-Owner @ BodyBuildingXtreme 2002 Navy Blue Metallic Camaro SS "The Blue Ghost" # 10354 -=LME LSX 454ci built for N20=-

11-18-2005, 02:49 PM	#47
~~2Ripped4U~~ Banned Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: NY Posts: 1,463 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 0	strongman:I've been in this similar situation.All you can do is ride it out,don't get in the middle of their relationship and break it up,because thats just ****ed up (My aunt just left my uncle due to him being an ass,and cheating on her anyways) If she wants you she will hook up with you once the other guy leaves.On the other side of the coin,you might have to come to realise some girls lead guys on,and don't really want a relationship.All I can say is just ride it out see what happens,and don't screw with their relationship.And like everyone else said there is more than one girl in the world bro,just my opnion on the situation

11-18-2005, 02:56 PM	#48
pammiejoe6 Pink Members Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: south texas Posts: 4,178 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 85	BTW...Angelina Jolie over Jennifer Aniston most definitely! (how weird that their initials are the exact opposite.....AJ.....JA.......hahahha)