Pumpatron

I'm 18 years old & lost my virginity last night to my girlfriend. I was going for about 10 minutes and it seemed like she was really enjoying herself but I hardly felt anything. I felt nowhere near the point of cumming. After a while I just gave up.

We did it again today and the same thing happened, she was enjoying it but I felt nothing. I had to fake it because it was getting boring.

I'm pretty worried about this because I always thought that sex would be amazing, especially with somebody that you love, but I'm starting to think it's overrated.

By the way, I used Durex Ultra Safe condoms, could this be the reason and would I enjoy it more if I bought some pleasure condoms instead, such as ones that warm up and are ribbed etc.


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Pioneer

could be that the condom is really thick and you just didn't feel anything, maybe the ones you mentioned or just regular lub ones.

or you could just be nervious, im not really sure.

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Pumpatron

Nah wasn't nervous 1 bit. I think it was the condoms because they were the extra safe one's so they're bound to be a bit thicker.


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skelooth

You're just nervous..... wether you think you are or not. The first few times i had sex I didn't think it was all that great.... now when i do it, even if the girl's a beast I don't last more than 30 seconds :hyper2:

And hey, she's not complaining! Take advantage and make her work for it :bigthumbu

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marlon

In my experience... some girls are just real loose. Or maybe its me :eek2: lol.

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nah, it's true.... some girls are REALLY loose.... and in my experience, it's not dependent on how many guys they've been with either. I've also found that some girls are much 'firmer' down there which can add a great deal.

Also, in my experience, lasting a full 60 seconds is a good night for me :yes:

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Pumpatron

Yeah I spose I was a little nervous even if I didn't feel like it. I thought it was absolutely shit and was worried that I've been thinking sex is amazing all these years. I just hope it's not overrated.


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dton

Take the motto of your 2nd mouse. Keep trying.

UNTIL YOU CHURN THAT BUCKET OF CREAM INTO BUTTER.

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skelooth

Just like chili, sex is always better the next day. Only in this case, it continues getting better and better with each serving :hyper2:

Until you get to the point where sex is like pizza... when it's good, it's VERY good, and when it's bad.... it's still pretty good.

Also, as advice from experience.... don't even consider what it's like for the girl. If you so much as hint that you are trying to make it good for the girl you are DOOMED to always having sex with the goal of pleasing the girl. Relax, kick back, and enjoy yourself. Make it about you. You'll like it better that way

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:why:

dton

LOL

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Reason: :wtf:

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BigZeke

Agreed. Too many people focus solely on trying to please their partner and they miss out on the point of sex, enjoying yourself.

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A_N_91

I've never had any or plan on in the NEAR future (I'm 14)...but when you guys say 60 seconds and on tv sitcoms etc. is that a joke or you guys really can't handle more than a minute??

Trick D

Lol, I can go on forever, also it depends about the position a lot too, at least for me. Also try not to think about it so much, when you think about it, it never happens.

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That, is without a doubt, the worst sexual advice I have ever heard.

LOL. No wonder you're having issues with chicks Skel!

Make it ALL about the girl... and you will NEVER have problems getting laid.
Girls talk..... Make a girl forget what her name is.... whether or not you get yours.... and you'll have them lined up before long.

Pumpatron, you're eventually going to get your problem taken care of, relax and get into things more, and not getting yours won't be an issue for you in the future. It definitely get's better with experience, and you'll figure out what works best for you in no time.

But, you will NEVER go wrong by putting 110% into making the girls experience the best she ever had. NOTHING but good things will come from that for you in the long run.

For God's sake... Skel is a great guy and can help you with many things...... but please don't take sexual advice ( or any advice involving women ) from him!

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DJohnson

I think Skel's just giving advice for devirginifying. First goal = please yourself. After you hit that goal you can get into making it awesome for the girl too.

It's not going to be fun for the girl if you're obviously not enjoying yourself. And if you're not enjoying yourself, it'll be obvious.

Oh yeah, and for this first goal, ultra thin condoms are the way to go. They don't break easier or anything, just more sensitive.

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That may be the funniest thing I have ever read, defintely the first and last points...

Anyway, EME is the man and I believe he is right. When the girl is pleasured, she will do a lot more and want it a lot more everytime you all do it. Plus if she is more in the mood, I promise that it will help you too.

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