Best Ways to Break Out Of "Shy Mode" - Page 2

~~Fresch~~ · 05-15-2005, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Fresch

www.fastseduction.com

That eye contact thing sounds like something from ww.fastseduction.com It is a site filled with lots of tips like that on how to improve your skills in picking up members of the opposite sex, and lots of ideas from similarly shy people like yourself!

Master Of Puppets · 05-15-2005, 01:16 AM

ok. thanks.

Big Ass Bulker · 05-15-2005, 05:05 PM

I like this thread, hopes its gonna help me too....

Nonsequitur · 05-15-2005, 05:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Fresch

That eye contact thing sounds like something from ww.fastseduction.com It is a site filled with lots of tips like that on how to improve your skills in picking up members of the opposite sex, and lots of ideas from similarly shy people like yourself!

Oh cool, you mean the common tricks actually made it to a "seduction" site... Very interesting.

~~Fresch~~ · 05-18-2005, 02:26 AM

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Originally Posted by Nonsequitur

Oh cool, you mean the common tricks actually made it to a "seduction" site... Very interesting.

Yeah, who would have thought of doing something sensible like that.

guym · 05-21-2005, 05:28 AM

One thing to keep in mind: You may be a work in progress, and still finding your bounderies of what you are comfortable doing...but NEVER act in a way that is not "you"

It's the old cliche (All together now! :p ) BE YOURSELF!

Master Of Puppets · 05-21-2005, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by guym

One thing to keep in mind: You may be a work in progress, and still finding your bounderies of what you are comfortable doing...but NEVER act in a way that is not "you"

It's the old cliche (All together now! :p ) BE YOURSELF!

Thanks for the advice.

-MOP

pammiejoe6 · 09-11-2005, 06:05 AM

MOP...first of all lemme tell ya...we've ALL been where you are...its really difficult to put yourself out there and try and find people who accept you for who you are without you feeling embarrassed or like youre being judged...

lemme just tell you from the girls point of view.....i remember when i was a kid and just trying to get a guys attention....so many guys acted like they didnt care or that they were better than me that i just didnt give them the time of day....perhaps if you find a girl that you are genuinely interested in you can make the effort to respond to her in a way where she would KNOW youre interested yanno? its just so hard to tell sometimes...maybe if youd try to at least TALK to her and share a few things that you both are interested in that would help? or even just try to be honest and tell her you think shes cute...even if its difficult...she would KNOW you have an interest in her because youre putting yourself out there yanno? im not saying that you should do any of this right out in the open...but maybe if you could find a time when you both are alone and you can be honest she might respond positively...i know i would have when i was younger...too many guys get so wrapped up in trying to "be kewl" or so worried of being declined that they forget that having a relationship with someone isnt about being kewl......its about sharing who you really are and making that other person feel special and like they have something that no one else has yanno? i know its difficult, but if you really are interested in finding someone you HAVE to put yourself out there...its SO scarey i know...and maybe youre not ready yet...so take your time...but when you ARE ready...br sure and tell that person how you really feel and dont worry what other people will think ok? there have been many times when a relationship was ruined because one or both people were influenced by their friends opinions and not their own.

i am sure youre a very handsome and giving, wonderful person dude....just hang in there...eventually your gonna WOW all the women and then youre goona be asking hwo to fend them off!! hahaha

i have faith in you dude....be strong...work on your bod...and always remember YOU are SPECIAL...and you will make some woman a GREAT partner one of these days!

Apootheosis · 09-11-2005, 02:38 PM

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Originally Posted by pammiejoe6

lemme just tell you from the girls point of view.....i remember when i was a kid and just trying to get a guys attention...

lotta of us wait for a girl to talk to us. Big mistake, dont waste your time.

Master Of Puppets · 09-11-2005, 03:08 PM

Wow, thanks pammiejoe.

That was a great post.

Dodgy 8- I take it that means for me to go to the women instead of waiting for the women to come to me, correct?

I gotta be more outgoing.

Thanks again for the help, all.

MOP

Apootheosis · 09-11-2005, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Master Of Puppets

Wow, thanks pammiejoe.

That was a great post.

Dodgy 8- I take it that means for me to go to the women instead of waiting for the women to come to me, correct?

I gotta be more outgoing.

Thanks again for the help, all.

MOP

yeah. im probably more shy than you. i suggest weed or alcohol, both you and the other person your talking to.

Master Of Puppets · 09-11-2005, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Dodgy 8

yeah. im probably more shy than you. i suggest weed or alcohol, both you and the other person your talking to.

ROFL.

None o' that for me.

MOP

pammiejoe6 · 09-11-2005, 04:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dodgy 8

yeah. im probably more shy than you. i suggest weed or alcohol, both you and the other person your talking to.

BOO!! weed and/or alcohol will only make things even more difficult in the long run dude...you may lose your inhibitions WHILE you are both high, but then once youre NOT high everything will seem even MORE complicated....why try and hide behind smoke and mirrors? its just not worth it....take it from someone who smoked weed and drank my entire high school and college life...its NOT worth it.

MOP.....im glad to see youre not into any of that...you have my respect! :bigthumbu

Trick D · 09-11-2005, 05:25 PM

Read my article on how to get women in the article submission thread. It will help out. I was totally shy in my younger days.

Apootheosis · 09-11-2005, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by pammiejoe6

BOO!! weed and/or alcohol will only make things even more difficult in the long run dude...you may lose your inhibitions WHILE you are both high, but then once youre NOT high everything will seem even MORE complicated....why try and hide behind smoke and mirrors? its just not worth it....take it from someone who smoked weed and drank my entire high school and college life...its NOT worth it.

MOP.....im glad to see youre not into any of that...you have my respect! :bigthumbu

getting head from a random slut doesnt even have a long run

Master Of Puppets · 09-11-2005, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trick D

Read my article on how to get women in the article submission thread. It will help out. I was totally shy in my younger days.

I read it. :p This thread was created before I saw that thread.

pammiejoe6 · 09-11-2005, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Dodgy 8

getting head from a random slut doesnt even have a long run

it does if you get herpes from her silly.

at any rate it sounds to me like MOP is looking for a way to break out of his shell and meet a nice chick to have a relationship with...not just dip his stick in a random mouth...i dont judge you though dude...you do what you do and im happy for ya if that makes you happy...im just trying to help MOP...

Apootheosis · 09-11-2005, 09:05 PM

whatever, pammiejoe's probably right if thats the type of girl your looking for

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pammiejoe6 Pink Members Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: south texas Posts: 4,175 Recipes: 0 Rep Power: 85	MOP...first of all lemme tell ya...we've ALL been where you are...its really difficult to put yourself out there and try and find people who accept you for who you are without you feeling embarrassed or like youre being judged... lemme just tell you from the girls point of view.....i remember when i was a kid and just trying to get a guys attention....so many guys acted like they didnt care or that they were better than me that i just didnt give them the time of day....perhaps if you find a girl that you are genuinely interested in you can make the effort to respond to her in a way where she would KNOW youre interested yanno? its just so hard to tell sometimes...maybe if youd try to at least TALK to her and share a few things that you both are interested in that would help? or even just try to be honest and tell her you think shes cute...even if its difficult...she would KNOW you have an interest in her because youre putting yourself out there yanno? im not saying that you should do any of this right out in the open...but maybe if you could find a time when you both are alone and you can be honest she might respond positively...i know i would have when i was younger...too many guys get so wrapped up in trying to "be kewl" or so worried of being declined that they forget that having a relationship with someone isnt about being kewl......its about sharing who you really are and making that other person feel special and like they have something that no one else has yanno? i know its difficult, but if you really are interested in finding someone you HAVE to put yourself out there...its SO scarey i know...and maybe youre not ready yet...so take your time...but when you ARE ready...br sure and tell that person how you really feel and dont worry what other people will think ok? there have been many times when a relationship was ruined because one or both people were influenced by their friends opinions and not their own. i am sure youre a very handsome and giving, wonderful person dude....just hang in there...eventually your gonna WOW all the women and then youre goona be asking hwo to fend them off!! hahaha i have faith in you dude....be strong...work on your bod...and always remember YOU are SPECIAL...and you will make some woman a GREAT partner one of these days!

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